1st of tha Month............

I'm just chillin, catching up on the T.O. show on Vh1.com, watchin the one w/ T.O. dem go to Vegas..................

I for some reason was watching Jerry Springer earlier today when I woke up. Uhhhh, how much are people paid to be on this show again??? Today's episode had a mother keeping her daughter from marrying a guy that didn't have a job, later in the episode, we found out that she is a bi-sexual and she ended marrying BOTH her man & her girl on the side...........

But Jerry's show do have me thinking, people do have tendencies to act strange in certain relationships. You have those that are desperate to be in relationship. Some peeps are so desperate that they will take the 1st person they see. Its real bad in some of these southern places, its a fear of being by themselves, some men & females will literally take bad people, don't take the time to know them before making things official. You also have those that know they have flaws, are in relationships, and will act super-paranoid that someone will take their significant other. If you feel that way, why are you in a relationship??? Its usually that fear of being by yourself.

I notice that people who cheat in a relationship will try to blame the husband. But where's the communication??? Why do you have to wait to tell someone a secret on a talk show rather than tell them one-on-one?? And if you cheat because the other person was a bad person, why didn't you say something in the 1st place, why would you just leave rather than cheat?? You would basically put yourself at a lower level.


3 Things I want to close out on:
1) Learn to have that confidence on yourself, once you become a good person, good people will come to you.
2) Desperation is a bad look, the more desperate you are, the lower you will go and the more sh** you are bound to let slide
3) Make sure you & yours have a CLEAR line of communication, make sure you are both on the same page, and if its not working out, make sure EVERYTHING is thought out before giving up.


Ya'll have a good night..................

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